Thank you so much for sharing this experience, it is not easy when the people who mean so much to you are not supporting you the way you hoped for... but the key is to keep going regardless.
Personally, I have not launched my campaign yet but I enjoy engaging with people on Instagram. I would look out for people who are interested in the product niche and who like my mission (for my campaign, it is to give people a feeling of warmth). One way to do this is Instagram's explore page - I'd search for hashtags that people use, engage with posts, and chat with people. I found that beautiful friendships can form out of nowhere - with strangers!
To me, Kickstarter is more than a Crowdfunding Platform, even though this is my first time creating and launching a campaign.
It's a way to connect with people, explore their likes and tastes, to get a conversation going. Your friends and family may not be part of the movement, that is their decision after all. However, I am sure there are many people around the world who would love to pledge. It's a matter of reaching them and showing them that you genuinely care for them - that you wish to benefit them with your campaign.
I really appreciate that threat, and your campaign looks impressive to me. Keep your head up high and keep up the great work!