When I was a kid I remember visiting our grampa in a nursing home, he never complained about the atmosphere or the care there. Probably and unfortunately now the situation has changed. Or perhaps you personally have been so unlucky. In any case, you can always find good caregivers. As far as I know, it`s now possible not only to provide care for an elderly relative in a nursing home, but also to provide
under home care. That's what my friend did, her grandmother was very reluctant to go there, but she still needed care. So, my friend used this service. In the end - everyone is happy =) and that's the main thing!